If you want to be attractive, the key is to be confident. You can light up any room with your presence and be the life of the party if you are confident.
Some people are born confident. However, it is a skill that can even be gained over time.
Here are 5 rules to boost your confidence instantly.
Grooming and Dressing
We all have heard the saying, ‘Don’t judge a book by its cover’.
However, to be honest, people judge you based on your appearance.
These are a few things you need to take care of when it comes to appearance.
- Dressing smart (refer to our styling blogs and videos)
- Body and mouth odor (Use perfumes to avoid body odor and mouthwashes for mouth odor)
Positivity And Happiness
Human beings are naturally attracted to smiles and happiness.
While entering a room or becoming a part of any conversation, enter with positivity and happiness. People around you become comfortable with you when you bring positivity and happiness with you.
People don’t focus on their body language.
Here are 4 rules to follow while having a conversation with someone:
- Don’t slouch. Keep your back erected while walking or when you are having a conversation.
- No close body language. No fidgeting with your fingers.
- Maintain eye contact while having a conversation.
- Face people while talking to them.
Subtract Comparison. Add curiosity.
The biggest reason for being under-confident is comparison. Stop comparing yourself to others. Pursuing yourself as a king or a queen in every walk of life.
Add curiosity to the conversation. Be interested while having a conversation.
Confidence is a skill that can be built over time. Practice the above 4 rules.
Speak to people at your workplace, and at parties. The worst is they might not talk much, and you can walk away after that. But try. I have also developed this skill over time, after a lot of failures.
Hope you gained some knowledge and enjoyed reading this.